‘Home leave’ is approaching and with it comes the most frequently asked question, ‘what do you (or rather expat housewives) do all day?’ - it's a question that my husband asks me regularly too!
Before I launch into a scintillating account of what I’ve been up to over the last couple of weeks (in my following post), which will go some way to explain why the infrequent blog posting of late, I must pre-empt it with an important point that not many people know about being an expat spouse – that is, it’s not easy to get a work permit, therefore often it is simply not possible to go out to work.
I have three children and have been busy enough lately thank you very much, but the situation is beginning to change now that the youngest is approaching three years old and the others are at school full time. The financial mountain inevitably looms ever closer as it dawns on us that three children was perhaps rather an extravagance and it’s getting hard for me to justify not working. However, I won’t pretend that I’m the type of person who would dash out to work given half a chance because I admit I could probably have done this if I was really determined to. In actual fact I love being at home, being there to do school runs and most importantly being my own boss.
The problem with living in the developing world as a foreigner is the thorny issue of work permits. The Government Immigration Departments are very tight on giving them out because they don’t want to deprive their indigenous population of employment. Most expats have to apply for their work permit renewal at least three months in advance and the government has the right to refuse it. There are prerequisites to getting a permit, the Immigration Department looks for expats who are providing employment for a good number of local people, giving their employees a professional training and who are bringing a new, specialised skills into the country. Many new work permit applications are rejected if these criteria are not likely to be met. I gather that some permits are procured by ‘oiling the wheels’ of bureaucracy with bribes but there are no guarantees.
My presence here in Kenya is allowed because I am listed as a ‘dependant’ on the two year work permit which is stamped into my husband’s passport. The children and I have dependants’ passes which must also be renewed every two years. To award a second work permit to a single family of expats is rare, but can be sought if ‘paid’ for (around £2,000 for 2 years I think?). This means that employers have to really want you to work for them if they are willing to lay out this capital before you even become an employee, plus they would no doubt expect you to work full time in order to capitalise on their investment. Alternatively you can buy the work permit yourself then look for work and hope that your salary will eventually compensate you. I got around this problem once by working for the British High Commission on a local hire basis (earning a salary of only buttons) as I was, strictly speaking, in the embassy thus working on British soil. Many housewives set up their own ‘cottage industry’ businesses, or work informally on a cash in hand basis networking amongst friends, but they often don’t have official work permits and risk deportation if their activities are discovered by the KRA (Kenya Revenue Authority), thus jeopardising their partner’s career too and their future in the country. Anyone with a personal gripe could report you and put your business under investigation, so it is a realistic fear.
Housewives like me end up writing blogs, getting involved in charity fund raising, becoming excellent horse women, tennis players or golfers and living vicariously through the experiences of our husbands and children... Excuse me if you are a working expat housewife and if you are.. good for you!
8 comments:
you call three childen extrvagance!!!!- get worried ,I am going to report you to your youngest daughter!!!
Thank you for your diligent work here on the blog. Wanted to let you know that there are people out in "the web" that truly appreciate your insight!
Do you know of any couples that have successfully gotten work permits for each? My wife will be working as a physician in Nairobi when we arrive and I was really hoping for one myself. I have read the laws and it does not appear easy...
Would welcome any input you might have.
Is Karen/Langata close to you? Any thoughts?
ezavht@yahoo.com
Nice post.
I am in US and familiar most with the Indian expats here in US. When an Indian expat marries an Indian citizen, that spouse comes to US as a dependent and often stays at home like you are doing. However, unlike you, newly married expats don't have kids and the housewives feel very lonely and bored. Often many of these wives are highly educated in India (MA, PhD even) and can't work locally for various reasons (mostly due to finding a place that will host their work permit).
of course you might need to work if you need the money, but why should you have to justify not working if you don't need to?
all this 'what do you do?' business is deeply depressing. you just tell them that you are bringing up 3 children and a husband, gal.
:)
In Chinese speaking Asia, you would be called a tai tai, which loosely translated means supreme wife. All the western wives are called it in China. I too, stay home due to work permit issues but as my youngest turns 3 and will finally get to go to proper preschool next year I will be looking for a little job - not at our Embassy because it would also pay buttons!
Thanks for all the encouraging comments. It's always hard not to feel slightly defensive when people continually ask 'what do you do?'
T.C. In order to get a work permit, you will need to demonstrate the fact that you have skills that are lacking locally and that you can train a local person/people as part of your job. If this is not possible, you may have to bite the bullet and pay (a bribe) for a two year permit.
My husband tells me that getting a work permit is easier for a man. When I asked why, he said that Kenya is still a very male orientated/sexist environment and that is just how it is.
Good luck!
Most of my expat friends stopped working when they moved abroad. This can be due to the lack of a work-permit, frequent relocations or just no availability of jobs - like in my case.
But the times have changed! We are in the information age and everyone of us is just a fingertip away from a great business opportunity!
Read more in a post on my blog!
http://successfulwebwomen.com/blog/general-articles/expat-women-create-a-portable-business/
Have Fun and Success!
Yani
www.successfulwebwomen.com
Great blog.
Do you know how to get in contact with expat women in Nairobi who might be interesting in volunteer work for a new Dutch NGO working with women in the slums of Nairobi?
http://dodorefoundation.blogspot.com
Adrian Rietberg (arietberg@hotmail.com)
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